How to Respond When a Senior with Dementia Insists on “Going Home”
It is common for seniors living with dementia to exclaim “I want to go home!” That is a reasonable request when a senior is temporarily staying in the hospital, rehabbing in a nursing home or shortly after moving to a new location. An encouraging reminder that the situation is temporary or explaining why the senior is away from home will often ease the senior’s frustration.
Sometimes, however, a senior’s insistence on returning home turns into a crisis that is not easily resolved. This usually occurs when the senior IS already at home but cannot grasp, or will not accept, that reality. Once the senior fixates on the perceived need, the stress levels for everyone involved ratchet ever higher as the demands to “return home” increase in frequency and emotional intensity. Ignoring the demands only intensify the senior’s distress. Similarly, patient explanations and logical arguments do nothing to calm the senior’s frustration.
A better way to deal with an “I want to go home” crisis is to use creative responses that redirect the senior to a calm state of mind. Please click on the link below to learn more about the three kind responses to offer a senior who repetitively asks to go home:
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